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08 October 2008

GLSEN: 2007 NSCS & New "Think Before You Speak" Advert Campaign

The Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN), today released the most comprehensive report ever on the experiences of LGBT students, the 2007 National School Climate Survey of 6,209 middle and high school students between the ages of 13 and 21 from all 50 states and the District of Columbia. The report is being released in conjunction with the news that GLSEN will partner with the Ad Council on a multiyear (3 videos so far) nationwide education campaign "ThinkB4YouSpeak" that includes public service announcements starring Hilary Duff and Wanda Sykes challenging the common misnomer of "That So Gay or Your So Gay" which was even popularized by a summer hit by Katy Perry (video below). The spots will debut later this month targeting anti-LGBT language among teenagers.



Key Findings of the 2007 National School Climate Survey include:

  • Nearly 9 of 10 LGBT students (86.2%) experienced harassment at school in the past year,
  • three-fifths (60.8%) felt unsafe at school because of their sexual orientation
  • a third (32.7%) skipped a day of school in the past month because of feeling unsafe.
A Hostile School Climate and the Effects on Academic Achievement:
  • 86.2% of LGBT students reported being verbally harassed,
  • 44.1% reported being physically harassed
  • 22.1% being physically assaulted in the past year because of their sexual orientation.
  • 73.6% heard derogatory remarks such as “faggot” or “dyke” frequently or often at school.
  • 60.8% of students reported that they felt unsafe because of their sexual orientation,
  • 38.4% felt unsafe because of their gender expression.
  • 31.7% of LGBT students missed a class
  • 32.7% a day of school in the past month because of feeling unsafe
  • The reported grade point average of students who were more frequently harassed because of their sexual orientation or gender expression was almost half a grade lower than for students who were less often harassed (2.8 versus 2.4).
Positive Interventions and Support:
  • Students in schools with a Gay-Straight Alliance reported hearing fewer homophobic remarks, experienced less harassment and assault because of their sexual orientation and gender expression, were more likely to report incidents of harassment and assault to school staff, were less likely to feel unsafe because of their sexual orientation or gender expression, were less likely to miss school because of safety concerns and reported a greater sense of belonging to their school community.
  • The presence of supportive staff contributed to a range of positive indicators including fewer reports of missing school, greater academic achievement, higher educational aspirations and a greater sense of belonging to their school community.
  • Students from a school with a safe school policy that included protections based on sexual orientation and/or gender identity/expression heard fewer homophobic remarks, experienced lower levels of victimization related to their sexual orientation, were more likely to report that staff intervened when hearing homophobic remarks and were more likely to report incidents of harassment and assault to school staff.
Despite the positive benefits of these interventions,
  • 36.3% reported a Gay-Straight Alliance.
  • 36.3% identified 6 plus supportive educators
  • 18.7% attended a school that had a comprehensive safe school policy.
The percentage of states with comprehensive safe school laws is also low. Only 11 states and the District of Columbia protect students from bullying and harassment based on sexual orientation, and only seven states and DC protect students on the basis of gender identity/expression. The report found that having a generic law that did not include specific categories was essentially as effective for LGBT students as having no law at all.

The survey can be downloaded (pdf 1mb) here. GLSEN, the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, established nationally in 1995, is the leading national education organization focused on ensuring safe schools for all students. For more information, visit GLSEN.

29 August 2008

Its a pornographic day in the gayborhood, in the gayborhood! So lets make the most of it!

There has been a lot of scuttle going on in the national gay media markets, ranging from the two University of Nebraska champion wrestlers Paul Donahoe and Kenny Jordan, who were uncovered as performers on a gay adult website posing and masturbating for some easy cash (typically 2-500 dollars per scene) over the summer, by being outed on a blog dedicated to the raunchier side of campus life.

Paul (stage name: Nash) (nsfw) and Kenny (sn: Cal) (sources: Queer Click and Fleshbot) were both suspended and then dropped from the team around seventy two hours later after the controversial outing on the campus blog, The Scarlet Project, as they were made ineligible due to an NCAA rule involving commercial print work...

The scandal doesn't stop there though, according to the Associated Press, Nebraska athletic director Tom Osborne (pictured @ right w/Donahoe and other teammates) says the two dismissed last week after appearing on a pornographic Web site had run afoul of NCAA rules on a previous occasion. Osborne said Friday "the athletic department had declared Paul Donahoe and Kenny Jordan ineligible once before for violating the extra-benefits rule. Osborne says the athletic department had to appeal to the NCAA to have the pair reinstated. Each was suspended one match."

The two had both indicated that they were hoping to continue with their college wrestling careers. At this point they'd have to apply to the NCAA at a different school to do so (Andy @ Towle's Road).", said John Marsh, owner of Fratmen, who continued with, "If Nebraska is going to be pigheaded and kick him off unreasonably there has to be another wrestling program that's going to want him.", in regards to Donahoe. He further went on to say, "I'm in my mid-40s, and my generation has a stigma about porn. The kids, the generation of the student-athletes, don't have that stigma. They really don't care.... The shame and stigma aren't there for them. They're mostly worried about what their parents are going to think, because their parents think it's horrifying." (Queer Click)

365 Gay News Center has finally reported that Donahoe, who "won the Big 12 championship at 125 pounds in 2008 and placed third in the NCAA tournament after winning the title the year before", has transferred to Edinboro University in Pennsylvania. He will not be able to compete there until the second semester and also must be reinstated by the NCAA.

The
Omaha Nebraska periodical World Herald reports that when asked "if he was concerned scrutiny will follow him to Edinboro", Paul Donahoe with tears filling his eyes said, "I'm just really thankful they have given me this opportunity to come here and finish my career,... So far everyone I've met has been great." Edinboro Athletic Director Bruce Baumgartner told the Times-News, "If we hadn't taken him, there is a line of schools, schools in the Big Ten, that would have taken that chance. I'm sure we'll get some (criticism). People make mistakes all the time, and I think he deserves a second chance."

There is also the story of 34 year old, openly gay, Florida Police Officer, Mickey Verdugo who was a recent Reality Television Home Repair and Design contestant who previously did a BDSM (Bondage & Discipline) film (XTUBE) for Tom "Ropes" McGurk's Production Company back in 1996 (12 years ago), under the stage name of Jeremy Wess. He was outed back in 2004 when the department responded to a domestic disturbance and it ended up being two of their own male officers who were living together. Unfortunately the scandal has now caused him to be placed on suspension/ administrative leave until an investigation can take place.

Lets of course not forget to mention James Zinkand from Big Brother 9 who had previous exposure on a adult soap opera Dirty Tricks, and the source of a shitload of hits and page views for F6 still, and provided fodder for a cross blog debated on graphic content that is acceptable for reporting or commenting on the news of the moment.

From this season of Big Brother, Jessie Godderz (You Tube), (pics to left) *can we say woof!, was revealed as a performer on a Muscle Fitness site, Nude Model, and former contestant on MTV's NEXT & EXPOSED dating shows. His removal from the Big Brother House was the third time he has been ejected from a reality television game show. He was dragged out of the closet by several friends who distributed his promotional portfolio which contained very suggestive pictures to certain blog editors and it went viral within the week.

So much for rejected stereotypes, a gay agenda, and a liberal bias in the media. On to other news before I publish this post on Gays In Sports and Athletics, the coverage of the OLYMPICS by our news networks are not immune from discrimination and seclusion either.

Even after
recently being profiled in The Advocate, a twenty year old Australian gold medalist diver Matthew Mitcham, who came from behind (no pun intended) for a major upset in the 10 meter platform dive during the 2008 Olympics in Beijing, was ignored by the National Broadcast Company, and shoved back in the closet by FOX New's Sports Channel.

Openly gay diver wins gold
By Maggie Hendricks

Diver Matthew Mitcham, the only openly gay male athlete in the Beijing Olympics, won gold in the 10m platform. He beat Chinese favorite Zhou Luxin by 4.8 points, preventing China from sweeping gold in diving events. Mitcham is the first Aussie to win diving gold since 1924, but that's not the only thing that makes him a trailblazer.

He is hardly the first gay athlete to compete but he is one of the first to be out while competing. American diver Greg Louganis did not share his orientation until his diving career was over. To Mitcham, he is just living his life as a gay man and as a diver, and there is nothing extraordinary about that:

Being gay and diving are completely separate parts of my life. Of course there’s going to be crossover because some people have issues, but everyone I dive with has been so supportive."

Though he wants to be known as more than a gay man, the LGBT community is proud of their star. At OutSports, a sports Web site that focuses on the gay community, his win is front-page news. The Web site brings up a good question -- will NBC mention Mitcham's orientation during tonight's broadcast?

To Mitcham, that doesn't seem to matter. He has gold, and has reached his goals:

"I’m happy with myself and where I am. I’m very happy with who I am and what I’ve done.

UPDATE: NBC did not mention Mitcham's orientation, nor did they show his family and partner who were in the stands. NBC has made athletes' significant others a part of the coverage in the past, choosing to spotlight track athlete Sanya Richards' fiancee, a love triangle between French and Italian swimmers and Kerri Walsh's wedding ring debacle.
(
source: Yahoo! Sports Blog)

NBC first defended the oversight and has now apologized: We regret that we missed the opportunity to tell Matthew Mitcham’s story. We apologize for this. The President of NBC's Olympics Gary Zenkel apologized in recent statement calling the oversight an "unintentional omission"!

F6 EDITOR'S UPDATE:
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27 March 2008

Comics and Animation Series: strike chords; challenge stereotypes!

At long standing within gay and lesbian youth and young adults maturity rituals is the affection for Science Fiction and the Superhero Comic Industries. This theory is proven still true more recently with the more detailed male to male intimate Animation/Manga Series, with even an entire subculture of them made for specifically for straight female readers (Yaoi).

Whether the stories displayed were of hot boys in their unitards, tights, made costumes, and bikini underwear being intimately bound and tortured (HERO by Perry Moore) by their best friend whom was also there secretly sworn arch nemesis, or just normal everyday occasions of young men (or women) being so close to one another that an impassioned love between the characters regardless of gender, status as friend or foe, develops. Just the idea alone of Dick Grayson and Bruce Wayne swallowing down each others poles after defeating any of the vast enemies of the City of Gotham, make a homo erotic suggestion and foreplay throughout comics and sci-fi a part of most GLBT youths and young adults experiences and early formation and understanding of self.

While mapping out their sexual curiosity and stimulation as well as their personal sense of internal security, many GLBT youth relied on the stories of survival and right judgment of these characters, while embracing their own meekness.
When it comes to dealing with the diverse issues of coming out and living as a gay or lesbian in a very harsh society and cultures, these comics and science fiction genres gave us a idea of our true power while giving us the ability to stand firm, even when everyone else said that we were worthless and less than equal. Now we have a long list slowly building of GLBT authors writing out their stories and dreams of that hope for the next generations to not suffer like we had to through innuendo and hidden thoughts.

PRIDE HIGH Comic Series passes into its sophomore year

Just recently PINK KRYPTONITE spotlighted that the kids over at Poseidon Preparatory Academy for Heroic Youth are getting ready to go through another term at PRIDE HIGH! The sixth issue in the PH series Kid Gloves includes a bonus mini comic regarding one of the characters Kid Olympus.

I have been acquainted for a long time with Tommy Roddy through MySpace. We have shared resources before and carry a common passion for serving and protecting GLBT Youth and Young Adults. F6 has been proud to cross link and support the PRIDE HIGH Comic Series since our reintroduction in this newer blog format and we encourage everyone to check out both the vast array of Queer Comic and Animation Series older resources over on our LINKS PAGE and new links (some are in this post) that will be updated to the F6LP this weekend.... I promise.

By the way, as I was reviewing information for this post I found that PRIDE HIGH's Anniversary is the same as martyred gay coupled Saints Sergius and Bacchus, the 7th of October, kewl!





[REFERENCE:] For More information on GLBT Comics/Animation Characters and Fetishes check out Ray Randell's
Super Underwear Perverts (+18)

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PHOTO CREDITS:]
1st picture is from
Chicago's Stephen Rader @ Are you there blog? It's me, Stephen!
2nd picture source not known at time of publishing will cite asap!

14 March 2008

Message Update on the Million Fag March 30th of March 2008


First, the bad news...

I finally heard from the city of Topeka regarding what we can and can't do. And there are two pretty major "can'ts" that are going to affect us. But before you decide all is lost, please read all the way through and see what we've come up with.

The first "can't" involves "picketing a private residence." The WBC is considered a private church, and therefore falls under the same rules as a private home. In short: we can't picket directly outside the Westboro Baptist Church.

Trust me. I hear your thoughts, and I understand completely.

The second "can't" (which doesn't really matter so much after the first) is that the city attorney's office feels this many people in the street constitutes a parade. Had they informed me of this earlier, I could have attempted to get the proper permits. And in fact, I was told on one occasion that we would NOT be needing any permits.

The officer I spoke with, however, thought the city might deny our permit anyway, based on the streets we'd have to block. We won't even discuss what this would have done to the cost of our little grass roots event. (On the plus side, we're freed from any prior time contraints.)

Not surprisingly, there aren't any sidewalks in that area, which might have given us some leeway. So, yeah. Those thoughts you're still having? I had them, too. But read on...

What do we do then?

Well, if we can't focus our attention on the WBC specifically, we'll just have to let the entire city of Topeka know why we're there. A great way to do that is to line ourselves up along a major street where we can't be ignored. And there happens to be one not so far from the WBC. While we're at it, why not take over one of the nicest parks in town as our base of operations?

Next, we let the Phelps know where we'll be. Some have commented that the WBC probably wouldn't know we existed if we weren't outside during their service. Let me assure you: They know we're coming. But just so we're positive, I'll personally send them an invitation letting them know where we'll be and when (don't worry, I'm getting to that). I'll even ask them to come speak with us. I notice a certain date is conspicuously absent from their picket schedule, so I'd bet they're free that day.

In other words, the only way we won't see them is if they decide they don't want to be seen.

So, where will we be? Ah, now for the details.

  • - On March 30th, 2008 at 11:00 AM, everyone should gather at Gage Park, located at the corner of 10th St and Gage Blvd in Topeka. There should be plenty of parking right across 10th Street.
  • - At that time, we will hold a pre-March rally hosted by Jack E. Jett, featuring the music of Oreaganomics, Bill Boll, and perhaps a few others.
  • - At the conclusion of our rally, the March begins! We'll line up down Gage Blvd (be sure to keep things legal and stay on the sidewalk!) Bring your signs, shirts, and any other Marching gear you see fit!
  • - We'll be free to make ourselves known well into the evening, with a police force to keep everyone safe.
  • - And yes, I really am going to invite the Phelps.
One other thing to brighten your day: you will undoubtedly want to see the church. Luckily, we will only be a couple of blocks away. And while this won't be officially MFM-sanctioned... well, I'll just tell you what the Topeka police officer told me. "They are still public streets." Just watch out for two things: Don't block street traffic, and don't take any "hate" signs directed at the Phelps clan past the church (this can be construed as "picketing" them. But you shouldn't have those anyway, because you're better than that). Signs that do not contain a hateful message will probably be fine.

So... that's it! Please send any feedback my way -- good or bad -- and I'll respond as soon as I can.
See you all in a couple of weeks, and you'll be hearing more from me between now and then. With your support, this year's "can'ts" will become small hurdles for next year's 2nd Annual MFM.

- Chris Love

Million Fag March @ Westboro Baptist Links

08 February 2008

AFA and Micah Clark at it again this time on your radio with kids

In a recent press release (copied below), made available to the local bloggers by Dan Turkette of Fort Wayne News, Micah Clark, President of the American Family Association of Indiana Political Action Coalition, has issued a hateful, misinformed, irrational, radio commercial and campaign. Their latest attack on liberty violates the innocence of a child, lambastes GLBTIQAS citizens, and strives to cow toe legislators into pushing this Marriage Amendment to the Constitution, known as SJR7, (which should never be heard by the General Assembly to begin with let alone passed) by the General Assembly, to a referendum by the people. This is bad law and "it don't get mo' simpler th'n that"! (*updated 11 February 08)

"Why shouldn't it be given to the people to decide?" You wonder. Because unlike the common convenient knowledge and presumption by the media, we don't live in a democracy but a democratic representative Republic. Part of the job of a representative government is to stop the idiots within either a majority or minority of the citizenry from having false force in what actually gets signed into law. We elect representatives to not just govern but to protect the individual citizen's Divine endowed rights as well as the collective citizens guarantee of those Divine endowed individual rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

The minute you reduce the individual rights of someone based on a social classification or association system you automatically deny their equality and nobility as a human being and relegate them to a status as a beast of burden. That, Mr. Clark, makes you no different than Lucifer to deny the Divine's love for, image in, and likeness portrayed by, all mankind. (ref: Sir Francis Bacon)

Furthermore, and my primary issue with the advertisement, by exploiting the innocence of a child in your commercial, asking him to present outlandish and unfounded questions, and focusing the listener to deny the power of love being more powerful than anything else, you should be ashamed of yourself and "tie the mill stone around your own neck (Gospel of St. Luke 17:1-4)".

Mr. Clark, keep your political religion out of my childrens' personal relationships with LORD Joshua-Emmanuel of Nazareth, aka "Jesus Christ".
By the way, just to answer your advertisement's second question, my four sons have three fathers and two mothers combined. You do the math Mr. Clark. That is five times the love and care, for each one of them!

Calling on Legislators to Protect Marriage in Indiana
by Micah Clark, President AFA of Indiana PAC

(Indianapolis) - The AFA of Indiana PAC has launched a groundbreaking radio ad campaign urging Hoosiers to contact their legislators in support of traditional marriage. The ad titled “Confused Children” features children questioning the implications of same-sex marriage in Indiana.

These powerful new 60-second spots are, have or will air on radio stations in the following cities across Indiana: Anderson, Booneville, Elkhart, Evansville, Franklin/Greenwood, Greenfield, Fort Wayne, Indianapolis, Michigan City, and South Bend. The ads are appearing on talk, country and Christian formats on both AM and FM bands.

The ads are designed to generate phone calls into the Indiana House urging legislators to pass the Marriage Protection Amendment (SJR 7), which recently passed the Senate for the fourth time with broad bi-partisan support. House Speaker Patrick Bauer and House Rules Committee Chairman Scott Pelath hold the fate of SJR 7 in their hands. If moved through the Rules Committee, the amendment would pass with strong bi-partisan support of the Indiana House.

“This ad is designed to urge people to contact their legislators about the importance of protecting our marriage laws. It is also designed to challenge those who mistakenly think that allowing two men to marry is no big deal. Because both mothers and fathers matter, the definition of marriage matters,” said Micah Clark, AFA of Indiana PAC President.

The Indiana House must pass SJR 7 this session, or the amendment dies, and the entire process must begin again leaving Indiana’s marriage laws unprotected until 2012. Twenty-seven states have already enacted Marriage Protection Amendments. Many of those without amendments have faced legal challenges from gay rights groups attempting to use the courts and activist judges to force state governments to embrace same-sex marriage. Next week homosexual activists are gathering at the Indiana capitol for a rally for same-sex marriage, the second such rally in less than four months.

Now that Mr. Clark has gotten his fifteen minutes, let me clarify what Indiana Equality is addressing at its annual rally at the State House. This years rally is entitled “Equality IS a Hoosier Value!” and will be held President's Day, Monday, 18th of February, 2008 from 1:00pm to 2:30pm @ The Indiana Statehouse, North Atrium.

It is more important than ever to help educate your legislators on its hidden dangers. While increasing numbers of representatives are becoming aware of growing problems with “marriage discrimination amendments” passed by other states, we need your help to let them know how they can make the best decision for Indiana .


It is also important to tell our legislators that we want bias crimes legislation to be enacted, and civil rights protections expanded. All Hoosiers deserve not to live in fear for their lives or in fear they might lose their job. Help us cast the widest net possible by ALERTING YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS to this important opportunity to make a difference and voice your concerns.
Show our legislators that words do matter! Help ensure that Indiana:

· prevents the passage of a DANGEROUS AMENDMENT that HURTS ALL HOOSIERS
· recognizes that HOOSIERS deserve to be PROTECTED from BIAS-BASED CRIMES
· expands its CIVIL RIGHTS PROTECTIONS to include ALL HOOSIERS

The Indiana Senate has once again passed SJR-7, and it now makes its way to the Indiana House of Representatives for consideration in the coming days. The Senate had all but decided to not give SJR-7 a hearing this year, but the so called "pro-family" organizations like Advance America, the Indiana Family Institute and the American Family Association of Indiana put extreme pressure on the Senate leadership, and they changed course.


Indiana Equality continues to work closely with leadership of the House of Representatives to make sure that this harmful bill does not see the light of day again this year. While we expect victory again this year, it's clear, as evidenced by the attempt to put marriage language into the proposed constitutional amendment on property taxes, that the proponents of the Marriage Discrimination Amendment will not stop their questionable tactics to keep this hurtful bill in play. Passage of SJR-7 by the Indiana House of Representatives will keep this harmful legislation in play and set the stage for a possible ballot initiative this year.

If approved by the electorate, SJR-7 will forever write discrimination into the Indiana Constitution, affecting thousands of Hoosier families.
Other ideas you can do to take action:

· Write the editor of your local newspaper to express your support/opposition
to legislation.
· Hand write a letter to your local elected officials letting them know about unfair legislation or practices.

· Talk to your friends, family and neighbors how unfair legislation affects all Hoosier families.


[F6
EDITOR'S NOTES & ADDENDUM:]

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To hear the statewide version of AFA's new ad, click here (http://www.afainpac.net/Audio/IN-FebAd.mp3)

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There are many things you can do to stem the tide of the rhetoric of our detractors. For more information, visit Indiana Equality. You will find a wealth of information that will assist you in making a difference.

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"They that deny a God destroy man’s nobility; for certainly man is of kin to the beasts by his body; and, if he be not of kin to God by his spirit, he is a base and ignoble creature."
(
Sir Francis Bacon)

07 February 2008

HRC FW asking for volunteers for "IN THE NAME OF LOVE"

Hi all!

If you'd like to volunteer at Saturday's event, it would be MUCH appreciated!!

We need help with:
* taking money at the door
* keeping the food and drink coming
* answering questions regarding GLBT legislation
* just making sure people are comfortable and having a great time!

If you're interested, please contact Linda either here, at
LindaHRCvolunteer@yahoo.com, or at (260) 615-4154.

Thank you so much!!!

Come join us and have a BLAST!!!!!

See you Saturday!!!

HRC Fort Wayne,
The Chorus of Fort Wayne,
EREN of IPFW,
Reality Magazine,
PFLAG Fort Wayne

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F6 EDITOR'S NOTES:]

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+ to find more about Ben Walter
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13 January 2008

Winter Wonderland Drag Show TODAY!!

EREN of IPFW

Proudly Presents A Winter Wonderland Show (the rescheduled version)

IPFW- Walb Student Union Ballroom (north side of the campus, west of the roundabout off Stellhorn/ State Road 37

6:00pm- $6.00 at the door

Featuring: Sasha Sinclaire, Della Licious, Jessica Banks, Miss Tykela, Niomi Necoll Onassis, Flawless, Mz. Gizelle, Mercades, Olivia Davis, Vanessa Styles, Lola Palooza, Britney Monroe, Kristina, Danielle Diamonds, Natasha Necoll, with special guest Mr. Gay Three Rivers!

Co-sponsored by the HRCFW and Reality Magazine!

Come out and help sponsor your local GLBT community organizations!

09 December 2007

From the London Gay Men's Chorus: Coming Out @ Christmas

I know that I am breaking my usual rule about putting anything up until the actual Christmas Liturgical Season but this was too funny and awesome not to post it. Although it did prove a perfect opportunity to announce the Christmas concerts of our own combined queer chorus.



To find out more about our own
combined GLBTIQAS chorus,
please visit The Chorus of Fort Wayne website.

Upcoming Events of The Chorus of Fort Wayne include:

Christmas Concerts
on Friday 14th of December 7:00 p.m.
on Sunday 16th of December 3:00 p.m.
@ Forest Park United Methodist Church
2100 Kentucky Avenue Fort Wayne, Indiana 46805
( @ one block south of State Boulevard
and one block west of Crescent Avenue)
A free will offering will be accepted.

To read another article about The Chorus of Fort Wayne see
the corresponding post on The Reign And Rook 3rd Edition.

Hat tip for the video forward to Michael Anderson-Vaughn @ A Touch Of Pink

22 November 2007

As you gather around with family and friends...

and decide whether or not to come out at dinner remember the reason for this get together is first about love and then survival of the pitch fork.

16 November 2007

Excuse me! Can I borrow your newspaper?

In an obvious ploy to lure more gay men to overnight at Britain's 300 low budget low class and badly decorated Travelodge hotels, the chain's crafty management has announced an epidemic of naked men roaming the halls and lobbies throughout the night.

According to the report out of London, a surge in naked sleepwalking among guests has led Travelodge to re-train staff to handle late-night nudity.

Travelodge says sleepwalking rose seven-fold in the past year, and 95 percent of the somnambulants are scantily clad men.

"We have seen an increased number of cases over the years so it is important that our staff know how to help sleepwalking when it arises," Leigh McCarron, the chain's sleep director, said in a statement.

One tip in the company's newly released "sleepwalkers guide" tells staff to keep towels handy at the front desk in case a customer's dignity needs preserving. Small penises? An obvious case of genital herpes?

The company said naked wanderers often ask receptionists such questions as:

"Where's the bathroom?," "Do you have a newspaper?" or "Can I check out, I'm late for work?"

Studies have found that sleepwalking can be brought on by stress, alcohol, eating cheese or consuming too much caffeine. It generally takes effect an hour or two after going to bed, when people are first slipping into a deep sleep.

Asked Thursday why she thought 95 percent of its sleepwalkers were naked men, a Travelodge spokeswoman said: "We have more men staying with us than women, so that could be a factor."

story and picture copied from R.J.R.'s PROCEED AT YOUR OWN RISK

31 October 2007

the life and times of gay youth and young adults

I need to also catch up on some interesting news that I have been sitting on for a week:

Royal yes to diversity at Davis Senior High

Gay boys are voted princes of junior event, cheered by fellow students, adults.

By Kim Minugh - Bee Staff Writer


Ladies and gentlemen, introducing the royalty of Davis Senior High School's junior class: Brandon Raphael and his prince, Kiernan Gatewood.


For what appears to be the first time in school history, the Davis Senior High student body has elected a gay couple into homecoming royalty. With each boasting a white sash declaring his title as "Prince," the two 16-year-olds rode through the city of Davis Friday afternoon in the school's annual homecoming parade.

They stood in the back of a pickup truck, arm-in-arm, smiling warmly despite the rain.

"People were so excited for us," Gatewood said of the couple's victory, announced a few weeks ago. "We were a little surprised, but Davis ..."

"Is a liberal town," interrupts his boyfriend of four months, Raphael. "Go 10 miles in any other direction and you'll get some other feeling."

Indeed, the news might surprise few in Davis, a city embraced and, at times, mocked for its liberal leanings.

But students and adults cheering on the boys recognized their election as a meaningful milestone.

Lai-San Seto, advocacy coordinator for the San Francisco-based Gay-Straight Alliance Network, said the Davis Senior High homecoming election is not the first case of gay students bucking tradition.

But it remains far from the norm, Seto said.

And usually by the time she hears about such things, they've become a controversy within their community.

"It's a sign that LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer) people are getting recognized everywhere," she said. "LGBTQ are considered vital members of the school community and are able to participate in school events in the same full way that their straight fellow students are able to."

Seto applauded the Davis Senior High student body for their acceptance -- and the school administration for being "open-minded."

In the weeks since officials announced the homecoming court, there's been no public outcry -- not by campus leaders, not by students and not by the community.

Students said they were encouraged that the election was not an issue for campus administrators. They said they were less surprised that a gay couple would win than they were that officials allowed it to happen.

"I thought the administration would have more to say about it," Raphael said.

Principal Michael Cawley declined to comment Friday on the boys' election, saying only that he hoped to keep the issue "low-key."

Students, however, were eager to talk. They piled atop floats and lined the parade route to show their school spirit, armed with air horns and fistfuls of candy.

Some have been celebrating their friends' landmark victory for days.

"I think it's just such a good thing for our school. Just knowing that the other kids recognize them as a couple and would vote for a gay couple to be prince and prince of homecoming. ... I don't know, I just think it's awesome," said senior Chandler Fox, co-president of the campus Gay-Straight Alliance. "I want people to know about it so maybe it can happen at another school."

Decked out in Davis Senior High's colors of blue and black, sophomore Charlotte ter Haar and two friends agreed that the election was significant because it came straight from the students -- Raphael and Gatewood won in a write-in ballot election.

Couples could campaign for their class titles -- king and queen for seniors, prince and prince(ss?) for juniors, etc. -- but no names appeared on the ballot. Students wrote in their own candidates.

"The students voted for who they wanted to win," ter Haar said.

Parent Lorna Bernard said she was taken aback by the news -- only because in her day, a gay couple stood to be harassed by their peers, not elected.

But Raphael and Gatewood, she said, are "not just accepted, they're popular -- popular enough to be elected as homecoming princes."

And that, she said, is "really cool."

As for the boys, they said they campaigned hard in anticipation of the election. But their goal, they said, was not to make a political statement.

"We wanted to be nominated and win," Raphael said.

Added Gatewood: "Just like anybody else."

source of pictures Michael Allen Jones of the Sacramento Bee

19 October 2007

Kelty has repeatedly shoved my *Head 2 Brick Wall*


Unfortunately I am now left with no choice but abstain from voting in the Fort Wayne Mayoral Race because of certain incidents. These other incidents at initial light could be considered novice mistakes like a slip up on a form or a cake decoration being taken just a little to far in satire and offending everyone elses sensibilities. But the recent incident has no excuse for its self and it is not even the initial incident that I have issue with but the response or more important is the lack of response on the part of the Matt Kelty for Mayor Campaign.

He was informed of the advert at 21:10 the evening before the day he gave the interview to Pat White and the fact that he stated he was informed of it only that morning is a direct and bold face lie. It is poppy cock for him to say that he did not have the opportunity to here the advert throughout that day when I in fact told him where to go to listen to the advert. Plausible Deny Ability doesn't tread water on this one.

In regards to the radio advert by the AFA IN PAC against Gays and Tom Henry.
AFA IN PAC President, Micah Clark, had this to comment (s: Dan Turkette,)

As the person who wrote the ad, allow me to explain what the ad is about and why it is not negative, for those who do not understand the difference between an issue contrast ad and a negative ad.

I wrote the ad based upon specific ordinances Councilman Henry introduced and actual votes that he cast on others. It was not deceptive. It was not about about anything he has merely said, or speculation of what he may do as mayor, nor was it a personal attack on him. It concerns his record, whether or not that record is a negative or controversial matter is up to the voters to decide.

Unlike a negative ad, this issue ad is not a distortion of those votes. Again, the ad is not an attack, but a reminder to a specific audience who cares deeply about these issues.

I believe that is why the far left blogosphere is so upset. They can’t deny Mr. Henry’s record, and they know what groups are supporting him. (This info was posted on this blog weeks ago, and is fairly common knowledge.)

People who are upset with us for focusing on these votes claim it is negative to remind people who would strongly disagree with these legislative actions from any politician, of these specific actions, at a time when the media is focused on cake, a congressman and other sensational matters that one could argue matter less to a city office than the city ordinance issues raised in our ad.

Many voters (particularly parents and people of faith) are concerned about the culture of Fort Wayne. They wonder why Constitutionally allowed regulations of adult businesses designed to reduce the verifiable negative effects like crime and lowered property values, were never passed years ago by the FW city council, even though similar regs were adopted in South Bend, Mishawauka, Indianapolis, and dozens of other Hoosier cities.

It is our role to bring up those issues people care about during elections. That is largely why our PAC, (or anyone else’s) was formed. If the NRA has a PAC it is to bring up Second Amendment issues in an election and to educate their supporters of those issues and where candidates stand on firearms freedoms or restrictions.

By the way, for those on the lefty blogs who took issue with the sentence that as a parent, Matt Kelty understands the dangers of our sex-crazed world. As originally written, I used the term sex-saturated, but thought that the voice over might stumble on that, so I changed it to sex-crazed. Some person either without children or living in another reality, said in reporting about the ad, that they did not think we lived in a sex-crazed world.

There are currently an estimated 447,000 people on the sex-offender registry in the United States. There are 11,274 in Indiana. (Many pedophiles and rapists violate the law and do not register.) The porn industry in America, each year brings in more in revenue than ABC, NBC, CBS combined. In another example, it more money in the US is spent on porn than is spent on the Superbowl.

According to the CIA, each year in the United States over 50,000 people, mostly young girls and children are trafficked through the country as sex slaves.

I’d say we are a nation that has become sex-crazed and responsible parents know it and fear for the safety of their kids. (What parent in their right mind today, says to their child getting on a bicycle, what those of us over 30 routinely heard as kids . .. “Be back by dark” or “Be Back By Supper”? )

The ad is about issues aired in a forum of people who care about those specific issues. A good way to prove this fact, is to watch people who disagree with those issues, talk about the ad, smear it as negative, but shy away from quoting exactly what the ad really says for fear that people reading the ad might actually consider it and agree.

Lastly, in case someone wonders, this ad is from the American Family Association of Indiana PAC. The Kelty campaign knew nothing of, nor had anything to do with its content or any other factor regarding the ad, its placement, duration, etc. I have no idea what Mr. Kelty thinks of the ad, or if he’s even heard it on the Christian station. We ran the ad for our own reasons in accordance with our own purposes regarding family values issues and our many supporters who listen to that station and care about these topics.

Agree or disagree with us or our ad, we did nothing unusual, unethical, negative, cruel, untruthful or even uncommon to a significant political race of this size.

You can find a rendition of the interview Matt Kelty did with Pat White on WOWO's The Big Show this afternoon regarding the advert on American White Guy's Blog.

I am extremely disappointed in these statements in the advert and lack of action or response by the Matt Kelty Campaign and while I cant fault Matt personally I also can no longer endorse Matt without reservation due to the fact that those whom he has chosen as advisors in office will be as incompetent then as the ones he has now for the campaign. My prayers and thoughts, go out to Matt and his family. My heart wishes he would win because between the both of them he is down right the better choice but the likely hood of that happening is slim pickings of sour pickles.

14 October 2007

As you pull your Sunday paper off the curb you will find that

Up The Stairs' books are off
Non-profit declines audit despite discrepancies
By Dan Stockman
The Journal Gazette

A local non-profit group cannot account for more than one dollar of every 20 it has received in the last seven years, including nearly $17,000 in one year.

A Journal Gazette analysis of income tax returns filed by the Up The Stairs Community Center found the group had money missing year after year - including one year when nearly a quarter of the group's budget vanished. The year before, thousands of dollars suddenly appeared in the group's coffers - also without explanation.

Donors who looked at the group's federal tax returns, which are required by law to be open to anyone who asks, would have found forms riddled with errors, major omissions and reports of missing money.

The tax return for a non-profit group is often the only way for donors to ensure their money is going to a cause that will spend it wisely.

But board members for Up The Stairs never ordered an independent audit or informed authorities that money was missing. Up The Stairs officials say there was no malfeasance, only unrevealed accounting problems.

The group's treasurer, Greg Kroemer, said no money was stolen, it just couldn't be accounted for.

“I never looked at it as money missing,” Kroemer said.

The group reported to the Internal Revenue Service that it had no idea where the money went.

“In-depth review of all financial reports does not indicate reason for variance,” the tax return said in 2004. “Unknown variance not found after in-depth review of all reports,” it said in 2003.

Other board members said they had never heard there was money unaccounted for.

“That's news to me,” board President Dwight James said. “I'm unaware of those overages.”

The tax forms also show the group bought a building but not the $87,000 resulting debt.

“I will admit there's a lot we need to do to get things back in line,” Kroemer said. “At the same token we don't know where to start.”

‘Money was spent'

Up The Stairs Community Center, which operates at 514 E. Washington Blvd., is the business name for the Fort Wayne Community Educational Center Inc., run by a five-member board. The group advocates for gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transsexuals in Fort Wayne. Its budget has averaged about $57,000 since 2000.

In the last seven years, the group at least twice incorrectly reported financial losses as gains, artificially inflating the group's assets. Another time, Up The Stairs overstated its losses by reporting a gain as a deficit.

In 2005, the group had $1,772 more in income than it did in expenses. That should have added to the assets of the group. But it also had $16,653 missing - nearly a quarter of its revenue for the year, and triple the donations it received.

The group reported an $18,425 loss to the IRS, however, because officials recorded the $1,772 profit for the year as a loss and added it to the missing amount.

Kroemer said that after The Journal Gazette began interviewing board members about the group's finances, he looked again at the 2005 figures and discovered what was wrong.

Up The Stairs received a $14,000 grant to pay for computer technology that year, Kroemer said, and when he was posting the numbers he accounted for the income but not the spending.

“The money was spent and the expenses weren't accounted for,” he said, adding that he now intends to amend the group's tax return for that year. He did not offer an explanation for the remaining $2,000 that was missing.

Dave Bennett, executive director of the Fort Wayne Community Foundation, confirmed the foundation had given Up The Stairs a grant of $14,613 for computers.

Because the expenses were not recorded by Up The Stairs, there was no way to know whether 23 percent of the group's annual budget had been spent properly.

‘It's not my job'

James, who has been a board member for more than a decade and became president in 2006, said he would look into the situation.

“Like I said, this is news to me, so I can't answer the questions,” James said.

James said he had never seen the group's tax returns.

Kroemer, the treasurer, said board members were aware of the problems and saw the tax forms.

“Everything that I do financially is reported to the board,” Kroemer said. “The 990s forms, all that's been presented.”

Fred Hefter, who said he has been on the board since the 1980s, first said he was not aware the group had reported an $18,000 discrepancy to the IRS, then said he had forgotten about it, then said he had read last year's return, then said he couldn't remember whether he had read any returns since 2002.

Hefter was treasurer before Kroemer took over in 2000.

“No, I haven't tried to solve the problem; it's not my job,” Hefter said. “I'm assuming the board will be taking a look at it.”

Trent Stamp, the executive director of Charity Navigator, a New Jersey-based watchdog that helps donors ensure their money is well-spent, said there is no excuse for financial sloppiness.

“It's a shame that it takes a reporter poking around for them to see where they misplaced a quarter of their budget,” Stamp said. “You'd like to think a board member would ask why Column A doesn't equal Column B.”

Robert A. Katz, a law professor at the Indiana University School of Law in Indianapolis, said board members are legally responsible for the money in their organization's care.

“The directors have a ‘duty of care' to pay attention to the organization's affairs, and also to supervise the people to whom they delegate tasks,” Katz said. “So that's who you look to first.”

Mary Clifford, who was board president in 2005 and 2006 but has since left the board, said the discovery of accounting irregularities prompted her in July 2006 to propose an audit, but the idea was met with resistance. She said she contacted both the Indiana Attorney General's office and the Allen County prosecutor, but both said an audit needed to be performed before they could investigate.

Clifford said board members then tried to remove her, and she resigned from the board at the end of 2006 because of health reasons.

Rob Grayless was on the board for two months in 2006 but was kicked off, he said, because he was asking too many questions about the group's finances. He confirmed Clifford's account.

“I was told you're a probationary board member for six months,” Grayless said. “If you do anything in that first six months they don't like, they throw you out. They don't want outsiders to know what's going on.”

James said it was true that Clifford and Grayless pressed for an audit but he opposed it because there was no money to pay for it. He said Clifford and Grayless were removed from the board for bylaw violations.

The 2005 loss was explained on the tax return signed by Kroemer this way: “In-depth review indicates possible bounce-back from positive (overage) Results from prior 2-to-3 years.”

Except the group did not have overages in the prior two or three years. The year before, 2004, it had an overage - when it could not explain where $5,859 came from - but the year before that, in 2003, it had a $1,072 unexplained loss. It also had similar losses in 2000 and 2001. In 2002 it reported ending the year on balance.

Even if it was counting the 2003 loss of $1,072 as an overage - it was incorrectly reported to the IRS that way - the two years of overages in 2003 and 2004 would have covered less than half of the $16,653 reported missing.

“The general rule of accounting is inputs should equal outputs. This isn't like trying to run the Red Cross where you literally have billions of dollars in investments. You're talking about a five-figure budget,” Stamp said. “If you can't measure what comes in the door and what goes out the door it seems to me you can't measure what kind of impact you're having on the community, either.”

The 2002 tax return shows the group's land and building assets increasing from $25,000 to $94,600, and explains that the increase is due to the purchase of a building. But the line for liabilities that year - and every year after - is blank, even though a land contract for the purchase shows the group owed $87,000 on the building it bought.

That could lead a potential contributor to think the group was financially strong, with almost $111,000 in net assets at the end of 2002. In reality, the net assets were less than a quarter of that.

Kroemer said he didn't know he needed to list the debt on the tax returns.

“When I took this over, I just followed the same form that had been used year after year,” he said. “Show me what I'm doing wrong, and I'll fix it.”

Charity Navigator's Stamp said inexperience or a lack of knowledge is no excuse for financial misstatements.

“They've either omitted or forgotten about their largest liability,” Stamp said. “If you're omitting it for whatever reason, either because you want people to think the situation is better than it really is or because you're not with it enough to keep a basic checkbook, this is irresponsible at best.”

Can't afford an audit

Board members say the group can't afford an outside audit. Audits generally cost about $3,000.

“It's nice to say you need to do whatever you can to get an audit but you can't pull the money out of a rock to do it,” Kroemer said.

Board member Hefter said he might have tried harder if he had been aware of the problems.

“We have always wanted to” get an audit, Hefter said. “We have not felt we could afford to get one.”

Stamp said the group owes its donors and the community an outside audit, whatever the cost, because of the trust they hold.

“(Tax-exempt status) really is a perk, and it's a perk given out by the taxpayers. In return, you promise to us that you will serve the public trust,” Stamp said. “You have an obligation and a commitment to run your organization that befits the honor of that public trust. Keeping fast and loose books is not the way you honor that public trust.”

Marilynn Fauth, coordinator of the Paul Clarke Non-Profit Resource Center at the Allen County Public Library, said groups like Up The Stairs don't have to struggle on their own.

The center offers board training to non-profits, ranging from sessions on accountability to individual training on accounting practices.

“I'll sit one on one with people,” Fauth said. “And if we don't have (what the group is looking for), we find the information for them.”

Kroemer said the accounting problems have led to allegations in the community of financial impropriety at Up The Stairs, but that is not the case.

“There's people out there whose insinuation is there's something sneaky going on at the community center and that's not true. Everything's ready for an audit. My files are in order,” Kroemer said. “I'd welcome an audit, simply because if I am making mistakes in accounting I want to know what I'm doing wrong.”

Dan Stockman may be reached via email dstockman@jg.net

Federal tax returns (pdfs) for the UTSCC can be found with the Journal Gazette article.

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